Posts Tagged ‘new year’s resolutions’

For 2025, Get Back to Books

Monday, January 6th, 2025

By Bob Gaydos

 74827E2D-8E6D-4914-815C-21DCF352D541 There are a couple of books strategically placed around the house that are challenging me to read them. Never mind read them, finish them. By strategically placed, I mean located so that they’re not staring me in the face, but can’t be ignored either. A perfect way to breed guilt. 

    For some unexplained reason, I just stopped reading books a couple years ago. Cold turkey. As a result, I think I’ve been going through a slow, somewhat irritable withdrawal. They say the first step is recognizing and admitting the problem. So here it is: When I’m reading — books, not news articles or research for columns — my life is simply more manageable. Less irritable. More enjoyable.

    That’s my New Year’s resolution — start reading again and start by finishing those two books.

     About those books — “The Paper … The Life and Death of the New York Herald Tribune” and “Satchel: The Life and Times of an American Legend.” They’re both in my wheelhouse (newspapers and sports) and, I noticed in writing this, both biographies. Coincidence? I think not.

      The Trib was my favorite newspaper from the time I started paying attention to them in my teens. It was The New York Times with personality. Lots. The book was written by Richard Kruger, who worked at The Wall Street Journal, the New York Post and was the last literary editor of the Herald Tribune.

    Also of note, the book was a gift from a good friend, now departed, Chris Farlekas. Chris was a legend in Middletown, N.Y., as a columnist for The Times Herald-Record, where we both worked, and as a producer and performer in scores of musical performances across the years. He also was a great gift-giver.

  This book actually got packed away in some box for one or another move from one place to another and didn’t reappear until a couple years ago. I sincerely apologize for that, Chris. And thanks again for everything.

      “Satchel” was lifted off the shelf of an open to perusal, old, private library, which shall remain anonymous. Basically, the books were there to be taken, so I took one. Actually a couple, but let’s stick to “Satchel.”

     It was written by author and former Boston Globe reporter, Larry Tye, a self-described avid baseball fan. It got terrific reviews and was a best-seller. Can’t wait to restart it.

   I’ll post something on the two books when I’m done. That will give me impetus to actually read them, never mind the fact I was actually enjoying both when I went cold turkey.

     In the meantime, I’m also reaching out for a little social media help. If you’ve got a favorite book, of any genre, you’d like to recommend, please do so in the comments section. New, old, classic, fiction, non-fiction, whatever. I’m eclectic. I’ve got a couple on a list, but I trust you guys. And I can use Kindle.

     And please don’t be shy. After all, you’ll be helping a codger regenerate some dormant brain cells he’s going to need to get through the next four years. Count it as your New Year’s resolution. Thanks in advance.

rjgaydos@gmail.com

Resolved: Work to Preserve Democracy

Monday, January 1st, 2024

By Bob Gaydos

 F6C3ED4D-2822-4ACE-865A-78176390446D   A friend of mine was talking recently about making  New Year’s resolutions and how it can be a futile or even delusional exercise (my words, probably misrembering his) since we rarely live up to them.

     I agreed. But … there are resolutions and then there are Resolutions. So, this year I resolve to continue to try to (1.) maintain a healthful diet, avoiding food and drink that will harm, not help, this aging body to keep on aging in a healthy way, (2.) get more sleep, (3.) pay more attention to the garden, (4.) pick up a book, (5.) take all my vitamins, (6.) keep in touch with family and friends, (7.) walk more, (8.) argue less, (9.) be more patient with the dogs and (10.) learn a new language.

    Ten ought to be enough and the key word was the first: “try.” (That language thing was a rounding throw-in.)

      Those are the first kind of resolutions. The ones we usually forget about around February. I will give them a good shot, but can’t promise anything.

      This year, though, I have another Resolution, one which I pledge to keep alive every single day: To do everything within my abilities to comment on the news and spread the truth as I see it, without fear or favor, until Joe Biden is re-elected president, Donald Trump is convicted and imprisoned and American democracy is saved from being tossed on the ash heap of history.

     That’s the story of 2024. That’s how important I think the coming election and the four Trump trials are. In my opinion, the future of this country as I have known it is in peril and far too many of my fellow citizens apparently don’t know or, worse, don’t care.

       I’ve given up on the “don’t care” crowd. I presume they like where Trump, the Republican Party and the MAGAS are headed. Maybe they’ll March off a cliff. Not caring is out of my reach.

       Instead, I’m going to focus on the “don’t knows,” starting with, “Where the hell have you been the past eight years?”

       Democracy requires participation, which means being involved in community, knowing who’s running for office and voting for those whose views coincide with yours. Just blindly pulling levers by party or not voting at all got us where we are today,

    “They” are not all the same.

   There is a world of difference between Joe Biden, a decent, intelligent, caring, experienced public servant and Donald Trump, who is none of the above.  And many Republican officeholders know this full well. They don’t care. They simply want the votes of his followers. If you don’t agree with him, don’t give them yours. Let them march off that cliff.

     It’s that simple. We are a majority. If we all do our part to preserve our democracy, we will prevail. I resolve to keep reminding you. This year, it’s that important.

rjgaydos@gmail.com

Carrie’s Painting of the Week – 01/10/14

Thursday, January 9th, 2014
Kicking Up Dust Oil on canvas, 30x30

Kicking Up Dust
Oil on canvas, 30×30

By Carrie Jacobson

Like Jeff Page, I find it impossible to escape the pull of the blank calendar. I’ve tried not making resolutions – but truth be told, I like making them. I like the idea of a fresh start, no matter how artificial it may be.
But I’m determined to make resolutions that matter – and which I can keep. So I have three for 2014.
1. Focus on gratitude. I am grateful every day, and I can, should, must and will bring that gratitude to the front of my being. The days in which I do focus on gratitude are inevitably more interesting, more rich and more fulfilling.
2. Stop leaving the recyclables next to the sink, where I’ve rinsed them out. Walk the 20 steps to the recycle bin whenever I rinse, and put the clean cans, jars and bottles in it right away. This is one of my most annoying habits. It is one I detest in myself, and one that I can change easily.
3. Make more soup.  Soup is great on all sorts of levels, the spiritual, the culinary, the metaphorical. It makes me shop differently. I buy different – and cheaper! – cuts of meat and poultry, because it will be delicious today, and then will go to great use in soup.
Soup uses all the leftovers, too, turning stuff I used to throw away into stuff that’s delicious and healthy and smells great all day.
This week, I made soup with the bones of our Thanksgiving turkey, which I froze after Thanksgiving. I also used a couple of chicken carcasses, one from a chicken we cooked, one from an already-bought chicken. I’d frozen those bones, too.
I added some roasted vegetables I froze from our Thanksgiving dinner, and the remaining vegetables and pork from our Christmas dinner. We had some odds and ends of this and that that – sausage from Sunday breakfast, the tail end of some ham we had last week, and a turkey kielbasa I found in the meat drawer.
In the afternoon, while I was painting, I cooked potatoes and carrots and onions in the oven, and added them, too. Tossed in some beans, some canned corn and some broccoli I froze this fall, from a neighbor’s garden, and we have an icebox full of fabulous soup.
I love making something from nothing – and especially, making something delicious from nothing.
If that’s not a resolution to treasure and to keep, I don’t know what is!