Gay Marriage in Maine: Signed, Sealed
By Jean Webster
It’s official. Same-sex marriage is legal in the state of Maine, but may face a challenge.
Just four weeks after a majority of Mainers – 54 percent, in fact – voted in favor of same-sex marriage, the referendum has been certified by Governor Paul LePage. Gay couples in Maine can set their wedding dates, though they must wait until the end of the month, when the law goes into effect.
Maine joins eight other states – Connecticut, Iowa, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont, Washington and the District of Columbia – in agreeing that gay people have the right to marry. But Maine went one better. It is the first state to approve gay marriage by popular vote. Gay rights activists call it an important step forward.
Prospective couples are rejoicing over the vote and the governor’s swift signing it into law. However, there is still a strong movement in Maine – and throughout the country – to overturn these rights by giving opponents of gay marriage another chance at the ballot box.
For years, many Mainers have supported the rights of gays and lesbians, including their right to marry. In fact, in May of 2009, Governor John Baldacci signed a bill in favor of gay marriage that came through legislative approval. At the same time, the opposition rallied enough signatures to put a referendum on the 2009 ballot, and gay marriage was rejected by voters in a “people’s veto.” If not for that referendum, Maine would have been the first state to legalize same sex marriage through legislative process and a governor’s signature.
That referendum was brought about, and eventually succeeded, through the work of the National Organization for Marriage, the leading opposition group to gay marriage in the United States, along with various religious and family watch groups. Funds in the millions of dollars came into the state from near and far to support the veto resolution.
And, NOM is already rallying its troops to overturn this year’s vote, just as it did in 2009.
According to Justin Alfond, Portland’s State Senator, there is nothing to stop these groups from doing it again. The law does not restrict what can be put to a vote. But Alfond admits it would be more difficult for NOM this time.
“Taking away rights is a much bigger chore than maintaining the status quo,” he said. Also, if the anti-gay marriage groups hope to get on the next ballot, they’d have to collect more than 57,000 names by Jan. 24, 2013.
There is no doubt in my mind that the foes of same-sex marriage are already gathering funds and signatures to get this new law annulled. The cry through much of the country is that marriage should be between a man and a woman, as it states in the Bible. Opponents of gay marriage have come to call heterosexual marriage “a building block of society.”
These opponents say they aren’t attacking the gay lifestyle. They just want to preserve traditional marriage. (If the divorce rate teaches us anything, it is that traditional marriage is pretty shaky.)
Others believe that the marriage of two men or two women endangers the marriages of the rest of us. (I haven’t figured that one out yet.)
Throughout the campaign the hue and cry in television ads claimed that gay teachers would teach their students about the gay and lesbian lifestyle.
In spite of the slim possibility that the new law could be rejected, gay couples are already seeking wedding locations so they can plan their weddings as soon as the new law takes effect, on Dec. 29. Because that’s a Saturday, some towns are considering whether to keep their municipal buildings open to accommodate gay couples.
Portland Mayor Michael Brennan would like his city to hold the first same-sex ceremony, but he says that whenever it happens “I want to be there.”
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December 6th, 2012 at 7:04 am
Jean,
Not to say that earlier this year, MIX IT UP FRIDAY, sponsored by The Southern Poverty Law Center to enhance tolerance and positive human relations, was nixed off by a certain school in Warwick when it came under pressure from an anti-gay group in the Hudson Valley who claimed that MIX IT UP FRIDAY promotes homosexuality. (I, too, haven’t figured that one out.)
December 6th, 2012 at 11:45 am
Thanks for this piece, Jean. As you say, if straight marriage is a building block of our society, we’re in worse trouble than we’d imagined.
I would love to see NOM defeated, and I’m optimistic that that will happen.
December 6th, 2012 at 6:37 pm
Consensus! A great piece and we’re all hoping for defeat of the right-wingers. Thankfully, gays and lesbians are attaining their constitutional rights!